Say yes to your child

Selina Khatun, Rangpur

Say yes to a child, son or daughter, who is willing to teach from the beginning. Such as exchanging skills with yourself, speaking slowly, punctuality, admitting mistakes and talking after first hearing. After hearing the advice of Dr. Bikash Majumder, Head of the Department of Children’s Rangpur Medical College Hospital and Bimal Kumar Roy, Head Teacher of the Seshu Niketan School, the reporter Selina Khatun created the Report. Children usually do not learn to listen to behavior. They learn by watching. Because it takes a certain age to understand. They like to imitate.

In a word, ‘Copy Cat’. That’s how they learn something new. It is not right to think that giving a wise counsel to the children that they will listen to it and act it out is understandable. And first of all, the education will start from the child’s home or family. It is seen that parents are having problems. They are talking in front of the baby. The effect is on children. In these cases, parents should hide behind the issue. If children behave in this way in front of their children, so will the children. They will speak loudly even if they are angry. Likewise, if you wake up late, your child will learn the same. You can’t explain to him with anything. As it is seen, children say hello to any toy with their ears before speaking at a young age. Because they are often seen in such homes. They believe in imitation. Before teaching your child something, practice it yourself. For example, if you talk to your child regularly and greet him skillfully, he will do the same. When someone arrives at home or meets with someone outside, first exchange skills with yourself. Then ask the child to do the same. At first, the baby may feel constricted. In that case, do not force or anger. Gradually the child will learn by himself. Just present imitation things in front of him repeatedly. If everyone at home speaks softly and slowly, this quality will be created within the child itself. If something goes wrong, tell your child about it. At the same time, it can be wrong. It is not the fault of wrongdoing, but the mistake of concealing or denying it by mistake. One has to learn from mistakes. When the child himself exchanges his skills, speaks softly, eats timely, sleeps, confesses his guilt if he makes a mistake, responds by listening and responding. Tell him about the benefits of these tasks based on age. Give him small gifts. However, it is not a candy or a precious gift. Maybe he woke up in the morning and gave him a gift of choice. Giving a greeting to 7 friends of the school, he gave a gift of color pencil, puzzle or matching game. That is, to give something that does not make him greedy. Treat your child in a friendly manner. Pediatrician Dr. Vikas Majmudar said, “To me, a parent with his child actually looks at the child’s vision before treatment.” If the child is the other attentive, let me first look at a toy. Then I give medical advice. Bimal Kumar Roy, head teacher of Seshu Niketan School, said that we have arranged for children to make them ideal people, not just in the education system. There are rockers, slipping nets and floral ears. Understanding a child can be a mistake. It does not deserve a severe punishment. If a child is vicious, do not clap with him. In this case, parents can explain to their child through body language or body language. Maybe you were a little serious or angry. This will make the children understand that he has made a mistake. Then explain to him the punishment. The children will understand that such mischief will make everyone angry. They can also be damaged. But instead of being afraid, children begin to hide in fear of retribution.